New Moon in Aquarius

Decks: Wild Life Tarot and The Garden Variety Oracle

What ideas am I ready to focus on right now?

Three of Swords + Tradition

This is a good time to take a look at those mental models that you seem to repeat over and over again that cause you pain or sorrow. You may want to seek some data-based solutions, therapy, or professional support to help change your mindset. What is it about the way you are thinking that does not allow you to be joyful in this one particular area of life? How can you take steps to change your perception? There may be helpful answers out there that you have not yet explored.

How can I be unique yet still enjoy community connection?

Knight of Wands + Consistency

Aquarius demands independence while still maintaining connection to community. One way to maintain this balance is by saying yes to opportunities that light you up and make you feel a spark of excitement. You may be apprehensive that getting involved in a partnership or group endeavor will not allow you the autonomy that you desire, but this can be accomplished by clear communication and setting appropriate expectations and boundaries up front.

In what way can I communicate my emotional needs?

The Hanged Man (rev) + Luck

Patience and optimism are the key to communication this month. You can’t expect to get it right on the first try, and you must be willing to allow others to make mistakes as well. If someone does not understand what you are trying to convey, that does not mean that they are unwilling to accommodate your emotional needs or to relate to you on a deeper level. Give yourself, and others, a chance to get it right and don’t be afraid to try again if things don’t go the way you planned right out the gate.

How can I give myself the space I desire?

Two of Cups (rev) + Longevity

The answer here is fairly straightforward — you must be willing to spend time alone. This is not to be a martyr or to prove anything to anyone. It is simply for your own well being. Over the course of your life, you will benefit from learning to be comfortable with your own thoughts. You must learn to rely on yourself for comfort, entertainment, and creativity. There may not always be someone around to take care of you, and you will be well served by practicing caring for yourself.

What will help me feel like my authentic self?

Nine of Pentacles + Protection

We all have a special interest or hobby that makes us feel excited and alive. It’s important to protect that activity, to treat it as sacred, and to continue to do what brings you joy regardless of what others think or say about how you spend your time. Likewise, don’t bring someone else down just because they like something you think is weird or boring. Being different from one another is what makes the world in interesting place, and when diverse minds meet we may be treated to the gift of genius innovation.

How can I best process my emotions?

Four of Pentacles + Stability

In order to work through what you are feeling, you need to feel safe and secure. Don’t try and work through challenging emotions while you are trying to meet your basic needs of food, housing, shelter, or are otherwise in crisis. Take care of your physical needs first, and then you will find the space to focus on the task of understanding and healing any emotional trauma. Likewise, don’t try to process your emotions with someone you don’t fully trust or who doesn’t fully support you. You’re better off working through things alone than sharing yourself with someone who is only going to pile on the stress and anxiety due to their problematic attitude or troubling behavior.